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What makes a child offend?

There are many reasons why a child may turn to crime, but the most common ones are:

• lack of education and playing truant
• poor family relationships
• peer pressure (having friends who commit crime)
• having family members who commit crime
• drug and alcohol abuse
• mental health issues, such as attention deficit and hyperactivity disorder (ADHD)

Perhaps the most important thing to remember, is that a young person’s parents are the first and most important role models they will have in their life. If a child’s parents set good examples of behaviour and show respect to other people, then they are much more likely to do the same.

Other role models

It is not just parents who can set a good example. Children and young people are also influenced by anyone else they feel a connection with. So people like teachers, other family members like uncles, aunts or grandparents, and even well-known people in the community can have an effect. Try to identify people like these who have good moral values and show kindness and respect for others, and encourage your child to spend time with them and be like them.

After school hours

Research has shown that most crimes committed by young people happen between the hours of 3.00 pm 6.00 pm. Trying to stop your child from socialising with their friends after school is unlikely to make you very popular, but if you think your child is involved in crime it is worth knowing when they are most likely to offend.

Parenting Programmes

Practical help and advice is available to parents whose children are at risk of offending. Parenting programmes offer one-to-one advice and support, and help parents improve their skills in dealing with problem behaviour. If you are interested in attending a parenting programme, contact your local council.

• Get contact details for your local council

If your child is at risk of offending, your local Youth Offending Team may suggest you attend a parenting programme. If you refuse, then they may enforce your attendance through a Parenting Order.

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What is a Parenting Order?

If you are subject to a Parenting Order, you may have to attend counselling or a parenting programme for up to three months. You may also have to meet some or all of these conditions:

• attend meetings with teachers at your child’s school
• make sure your child does not go to certain places unsupervised
• make sure your child is at home at certain times of the day

These conditions can last for up to 12 months. A parent or carer can be prosecuted for failing to meet the conditions of a Parenting Order.

Mentors

A mentor is a volunteer whose role is to motivate and support a young person at risk of offending. Mentors build a relationship on trust and confidentiality with young people over a long period of time. Young people are also encouraged to see their mentor as an equal. Over time, mentors can help young people achieve social or educational goals they have set together, and reduce the risk of offending.

For more information about mentors, contact your local council.

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More useful links

• Keeping your children safe from crime
• ChildLine Opens new window
• There4me (NSPCC) website Opens new window
• Victim support Opens new window
• The Youth Justice System information Opens new window
• Confidential advice for 13-19 year olds Opens new window
• The Trust for the Study of Adolescence Opens new window